ARE WE GROWING UP OR APART?

Remember the time, or should I say miss the time, when we all used to be so lively…so carefree… when some of you wanted to be a Superman and some wanted to be Cinderella, when we all were magicians as we use to sleep anywhere but always wake up on our beds… and when we had true friends?

Well if those friendships were true, then what happened to them now? Are you in talking terms with them, most of us are not even having their phone numbers, if we have it, its lost somewhere in the contact list of your phone. What happened to those promises, like we will stay together forever?
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ya ya i know all the answers..

1. we are in different fields now
2. we are so far away 
3. we both have made new friends now
4. we don’t have time to catch up with each other
5. now she/he has a someone special, so no time/need of old buddies
6. and many more

 …but guys, don’t you miss the time, when you used to share each and everything with your best buddy..your crushes..your dates..your problems..your achievements. When your whole group gave you ideas to impress your crush.. and now most of us don’t even know a single thing about the love life of our buddies. When we used to share our tiffins, actually fight for tiffins, after school things, 5 rupye ka KULCHA used be our luxury treat…but now we go into fancy cafes and split bills. When we would bunk classes n gather at our special spot to share problems or celebrate achievements. How we used to understand each other.
Guys, its still the same…u just need to discover it all over again. People change with time..I know..so it might be different now, but the bond remains unchanged. If they changed, so did you. Change is the law of nature, accept the change in your buddies..in yourself ..and let your friendship grow with it.
So if you miss those times..those old buddies..then call them..text them..meet them. Relive those precious moments. Don’t waste your time thinking “maybe its not the same anymore”…there is a chance your buddy is thinking the same. and if its not the same..then recreate the old bond.
Don’t you wonder why things change with time?.. maybe its because we grow up..we become mature..we become career oriented.
But let me ask you one simple thing..

ARE WE GROWING UP OR GROWING APART?”